Erotic massage etiquette – what’s OK and what’s not

Erotic massage is an intimate and sensual experience that requires mutual respect, trust, and the right mindset. To fully enjoy your session and maintain a pleasant atmosphere for both parties, it’s important to understand the basic rules of massage etiquette. Here are the main principles that will help you feel confident and comfortable.

Respect the Masseuse’s Boundaries

1.1 Massage is Not a Sexual Service

Even though the massage is very intimate, it does not mean sex. The masseuse is a professional who offers sensual touch, not sexual intercourse. Touching her without consent or requesting more is inappropriate.

Come Clean and Prepared

Hygiene is essential. Most studios offer a shower before the massage, and it’s polite to use it. A clean body and fresh breath contribute to a better experience for both you and the masseuse.

Don’t Ask for “Extra Services”

If the studio offers only massages, do not attempt to negotiate for sexual services. It’s not only inappropriate but also illegal. Keep things respectful and treat the massage as a ritual, not a transaction.

Communicate, But Respectfully

If you have any preferences (pressure, sensitive areas, etc.), say so — but politely and considerately. The masseuse will appreciate your honesty if it’s delivered with respect.

Put Your Phone Away

Take a break from technology during the massage. Turn off your phone, no photos, no videos. This moment is about you and the present experience.

Let Yourself Be Guided

The masseuse knows what she’s doing. Trust her experience, relax and allow her to lead. Don’t interrupt with unnecessary questions or suggestions.

Do Not Touch Without Permission

Some massages may allow mutual touch — but only with prior consent. Touching the masseuse without permission can break trust and lead to the session being ended.

Tips Are Not Required, But Appreciated

If you were satisfied, a tip is a kind gesture of appreciation. It’s not mandatory, but it’s always welcomed.

Give Feedback After the Massage

If you enjoyed the session or have suggestions for improvement, share them — politely and calmly. Every experience helps the studio and masseuses improve.

Enjoy — But with Respect ❤️

Erotic massage is about joy, relaxation, and connection. If you follow the basic rules of erotic etiquette, you’ll open the door to a truly beautiful and unforgettable experience.